There were at least fourteen Christian martyrs named Valentine. Any or all of them would be dismayed at some of the more crass things which have developed around the holiday named St. Valentine’s Day.
An example is the television commercial posted below. It is considered by many to be quite cute and witty. To a Christian eye it is full of phallic symbols, sexually suggestive poses, and a not so subtle pushing of the giant teddy bear’s groin towards a woman. The spoken text is just as suggestive. The main impression of commenters on You Tube is that it is insulting to women.
Let’s be clear.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with Teddy Bears, even giant ones.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with trying to impress your girlfriend or wife.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with the current St. Valentine’s Day, a day dedicated to celebrating romance.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with marital sexuality. It is a gift from God.
What is offensive about this commercial is its leering, manipulative attitude. Instead of romance, it is promoting a “game” where you win by getting what you want.
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